Thank you for your question. I completely understand. I worry and I have found that the thing that helps me the most is to have a plan. In other words, if I develop a written plan for self checks, doctor visits, and good skin care protection, then that nervous energy is redirected into positive action steps. Things get out of my head and into therapeutic action. Worry never helped me much, but action has. Hope this helps. Scott skincancer.net team member