We recently asked the community on Facebook this question. They suggested a range of approaches, including advocating for an earlier appointment, second opinions, and trying to stay calm:
"OMG, I worry about this all the time. The anxiety is always present. My doc is excellent though and tries to fit me in quickly if I'm seriously concerned."
"You could draw around its perimeter with a marker pen. That way you would know whether or not it was spreading and quit worrying about it. If it is spreading, you would have grounds to ask for a sooner appointment."
"How far out is your appointment? A skin cancer lesion shouldn’t be spreading THAT quickly."
"Depends what it looks like. I monitor for growth and I'm fortunate to get in sooner if seems urgent."
"I guess I am blessed: if I am concerned about a spot or lesion my doctor will see me ASAP. I have gone to her for many years and, based on our long relationship, she knows I'm pretty experienced at 'finding stuff.'"
"If I cant get in fast enough my oncologist will make sure I get seen."
"Definitely would have to depend on what type of spot it is. If it’s a melanoma then yes I would be worried but I don’t know that you can see what’s going on underneath there. I generally don’t worry about the basal which I’ve had several times and I know it is slow growing."
"By staying busy while listening to excellent music and getting as many hugs as possible, I've been through this too many times to worry my life away. "