Intimacy, Interrupted“I have scars,” I said. “I don’t care,” he said. But I didn’t believe him. I wanted to think that when he looked at me, he wouldn’t focus on the...Reactions0reactionsComments7 comments
Efudex: A Survivor's Guide to ShoweringWe all have that one thing that drains every ounce of our mental energy--that one menial task we still tend to dread with the whole of our hearts. I’m sure...Reactions0reactionsComments5 comments
Breathing ExercisesFocusing on the breath is a technique used to help calm the mind and reduce stress and anxiety. There are many forms of breathing exercises. In this video, renowned naturopath...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
Living With: An Interview with Scott MathenyScott Matheny is on a mission to raise awareness and encourage men to take a proactive approach to their own health and well-being. In this episode of the Living With...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Applying Sunscreen CorrectlyI remember some of my first impressions of sunscreen. I don’t mean the coconut baking oil that I used to put on that smelled and felt great. I mean those...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Darn You, Tan Line!I’ll cut right to the chase. I have a tan line, and I’m really ticked off about it. Were this 1992 with senior prom and graduation on the horizon, I'd...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
With Time, Mohs Memories FadeThe anticipation of getting Mohs surgery, and the procedure itself, can make you so anxious, that it’s interesting how much the memory fades with time. If you’re nervous about getting...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
I Can't Feel My Face When I'm With YouI remember hearing the chorus “I can’t feel my face when I’m with you” during my journey with cancer. Since my melanoma chose to take over my cheek, my dermatologist...Reactions0reactionsComments6 comments
Homemade SunscreenHomemade chocolate chip cookies...yum! Homemade ice cream...the best! Homemade apple pie...to die for! Homemade sunscreen? Evidently, it’s a thing, a thing I had not heard of until ten minutes ago...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
How Not to Talk With Your Baby Boomer Man About Seeing a Physician(Spouses, partners, significant others, brothers, children, parents and friends of these men: this is for you) I will be honest. I don’t like seeing the doctor. I mean I don’t...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Melanoma – A Long and Winding RoadMy first melanoma diagnosis required a wide local excision on the tip of my nose (6/12/2018). Sadly, the margins were not clear, so another surgery, as well as a sentinel...Reactions0reactionsComments8 comments
Insomnia and Skin Cancer Anxiety, Part 2: SolutionsLast week, we reviewed the sources of anxiety and insomnia in people with skin cancer. It’s important to identify these problems early when managing one’s overall health while treating skin...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Genie in a Bottle...of SunscreenA couple of months ago my daughter and I went on spring break to Cabo, and I was pretty proud of myself that I spent a week at the beach...Reactions0reactionsComments8 comments
Teaching Children About Sun CareSome of my earliest memories involve children's books. I remember Dr. Seuss, Mark Twain's books, Grimm's Fairy Tales, and Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. I remember the illustrations that thrilled...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
Lotions and Potions and Creams, Oh MyThe tube of ointment would have been in better shape if it had a cap that fit. I had been carrying it around the house, laid it down in a...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Self-tanners, Hypocrisy, and MeIt’s really getting to me. I am struggling to describe the way I feel lately. Being able to label my feelings is important to me, and as much as I...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
Nighttime Worry, Insomnia, and Skin Cancer: Part 1The National Cancer Institute (NCI) estimates that between a third and half of all cancer patients suffer from insomnia. Not only this, but when someone goes into cancer remission, their...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
When A Relative Is Diagnosed With Skin Cancer: Providing ComfortLast week, my spin instructor asked me if I could please wait after class so she could talk to me. As I stood there, dripping with sweat and needing to go...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
"Green" Screen?I try to be environmentally conscious. I recycle. I try to turn off light when I leave a room. I try not to let the faucet run. I am “pro”...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
How To Support Your Partner With Skin CancerWhen someone you love has skin cancer, it launches you both into a whole new world of medical jargon, appointments, procedures, uncertainty and worry. My own skin cancer experience, with...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments