Not Happy About My HandsWhen I was dating, I often tried to hide my left hand under the table when we were sitting at a restaurant or in other places. The hands are a...reactionscomments
Dear MelanomaWe asked the community to give melanoma a piece of their mind. We had tons of responses from members sending their "Dear Melanoma ___" messages. The biggest takeaway: survivors and...reactionscomments
Designs on TanningThanks to Hulu, I am having a moment. It’s not the kind of moment you have when you get teary over a Kate Winslet movie. I’m not even talking about...reactionscomments
Thinking About Skin Cancer as a Chronic DiseaseA while ago, when someone who knew I had had skin cancer asked me how I was, I said I was clear…for now. But I said I knew that I...reactions2comments
My Skin Care Routine & What's In My Bag After MelanomaAfter having melanoma I’ve become extra vigilant about skincare. My skin is naturally very dry, bordering on reptilian in winter. So if I must slather myself daily in sunscreen it's...reactionscomments
Saying Yes When I Should Say NoThe other day, I almost forgot to practice what I preach. Well, technically, I didn’t actually forget but I allowed a doctor’s office staff member to dismiss my concern when I...reactionscomments
Care Routine - SPF x 3I’ve had skin cancer for over 24 years. Almost all of my cancerous areas have been basal cell carcinomas, with a few squamous cell carcinomas, and most of my basal...reactionscomments
Making Sunscreen RoutineSunscreen is a part of my skincare routine 365 days a year. There was a time, however, when SPF was the furthest thing from my mind and not in any...reactionscomments
Melanoma, A Spouse's PerspectiveI asked my wife, Kathy Matheny for her thoughts on being the spouse of a melanoma victor. Here is what she wrote. Two heads are better than one. Four ears...reactionscomments
Efudex Users Like YouNew experiences usually bring about a case of the jitters. When it comes to our health, however, new and uncomfortable experiences, treatment plans, and doctor changes can wreak havoc on...reactionscomments
My Skincare Products“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” - Ben Franklin I grew up in a time and place where no guy I ever knew discussed skincare products. We...reactionscomments
Giving My Arms a Breath of Fresh AirJoni Mitchell’s “Big Yellow Taxi” is about threats to the environment, but you can apply some of the lyrics to a range of losses in life. Specifically, I’m thinking of...reactionscomments
Sunscreen-1, Midlife Crisis-0The summer of 2019 was--and remains in sweltering southwest Tennessee--a difficult one for this skin cancer patient. I’ve been debating about chalking it up to a seven-year-itch type situation. It’s...reactions4comments
Free Sunscreen HereFamily picnic, a day at the beach, golf outing, ballgame, you’re there, it’s hot, you’re roasting and you forgot to lather up in SPF50. Maybe you ran out of sunscreen...reactionscomments
When Good News Isn't Great NewsTypically, receiving good news can make us feel great. Ecstatic, even. Like all is right in our world. But there are other times that receiving good news doesn’t always make...reactions6comments
A Talk With My DocTalking today with Robert J. Kaplan, MD, my dermatologist. Dr. Kaplan is in private practice in Memphis, Tennessee and currently treats me for a skin ailment (side effect) caused by...reactionscomments
Getting Through The Days Before My Full Body Skin CheckI woke up this morning with a sick feeling in my stomach. I didn’t have any other symptoms-no fever, no body aches, no sore throat. I thought about it for a few...reactions5comments
Melanoma Movie Mind GameEXT: the three letters that I did not want to see. In the film business, this means that the scene is an exterior shot. It’s filmed outside...in the sun. EXT...reactionscomments
Letdowns, Letters, and Blood DonationsIt’s 2019, and receiving mail isn’t nearly the event it was when most of us were kids. Remember waiting anxiously on a letter from a friend? How vividly do you...reactions4comments
Playing Tennis in the SunPlay in the sun on better courts, or play in the shade on less desirable ones? Controversy has consumed our Monday tennis group. One wants to play in the shade...reactionscomments